Thursday, December 29, 2011

Baby's First Christmas

We had a great time in Utah and were pretty busy for almost the whole time we were there. Here are some picture and video snapshots of things we did over Christmas break.

Caleb did not care one bit about any presents or even the wrapping paper, but he sure loved all of the attention he got. He loved being held and played with all of the time and because he was always involved in what was going on all day, he rarely napped and slept very well at night! (Mom appreciated getting a 5-6 straight hours of sleep for three or four nights)
Visiting Great-Grandma Rabbit
Caroline kissing/eating Caleb
Caleb's not too much shorter even though he's 8 months younger, same feet size too!
Caleb loved Great-Grandpa Larry 
They look alike!
Precious!
Great-Aunt Sheryl
Great-Grandma Sunny
Great-Aunt Steph holding Caleb while we all talk to Caleb
The two Perkins' great-grandkids
Chilling with Great-Grandma Abbott
At Danielle and Jon's wedding
Talking to Uncle Dan
Playing with Dad
Hanging with Uncle Sam
Grandma Adams
We are a happy family!
Talking to Uncle Mike
Baby Elf photo shoot
Thanks for the outfit Grandma Adams
We wore our sock monkey pajamas (from the Perkins family) when we went caroling on Christmas Eve.




Big kids playing with the little kids' toys on Christmas Eve
This video is from the week before we went to Utah, but here is Caleb "saying" I love you with Dad.

Caleb felt snow on his face for the first time and shook his head back and forth because he wasn't sure what was going on.

He has started to suck on his bottom lip a lot, which only adds to the drooling problem!

He has also started to stick his tongue out to the right side.

Caleb loves to sing (howl)! Here's a video of him singing/talking with Uncle Dan.

Here is the Adams' family Christmas caroling in the organ room and the brass triplet (instead of quartet).

Monday, December 12, 2011

Two Months Old

Things I forgot about last week:
We got a beautiful, 9 foot, pre-lit Christmas tree from someone we don't even know! Our realtor called us up and said she knew someone who was looking for a home for their Christmas tree and she thought of us.

Allen and I started doing family history work and got so excited as we found pictures of his ancestors' gravestones, names on census records, etc. We have been able to discover so many different relatives and some fun stories about them too! Last Saturday we spent over 6 hours doing it and had to force ourselves to go to bed by 1:30 am, but when I got up to feed Caleb at 3:30 am, I found myself still looking up names and dates to find more family!

And on to this week, week nine:
Last Monday was Caleb's two month appointment and here are his stats:
Height: 23.75" (85%)
Weight: 11 lb 2 oz (34%)
Head circumference: 16.5" (93%)
= long and skinny with a big head
Our adorable Dopey baby
He also had to get vaccinations at his doctor's appointment: three shots and one oral vaccine. He chugged the oral vaccination - he loves anything with sugar (his vitamin D drops and Tylenol are the only other sugary things he's had). He only cried for a few seconds after the shots but for the next couple of hours he would cry if I bumped his thighs while I was holding him. That night, when Allen got home from work, he was holding Caleb and his legs were still sore. Caleb was smiling and he would get excited and start kicking his legs, only to stop and get a confused/pained look on his face like he was wondering what the new sensation was.
BEFORE: Cute baby in a cute outfit
AFTER: Cute baby in a leotard over his sweats
(Oops! Dad changed Caleb and forgot to snap the onesie before putting the pants on)
Earlier this week, I thought I was going to just have to have a stinky kid . . . I was ready to throw in the towel on giving Caleb baths! (haha) He loves, loves, loves baths. He splashes water all over the floor and mirror because he gets so excited when I squeeze water over his head or wash his face with the washcloth. He will happily sit in the bath until the water has gotten so cold that he is shivering. The second I take him out he starts crying. He arches his back and cries for 30+ minutes, unless I feed him to calm him down. At first I thought it was because he was cold, but after buying a space heater, I realized that was not the issue . . . he just wants to be in the bath. He is slowly getting a little bit better so now I guess I won't make him be the stinky kid. : )
Loving bath time! (Thanks rubber ducky for the censoring)
This week we also had a church Christmas party. We were asked to help at the last minute and it was fun! It turned out really well and we got to know some people better. AND, instead of Santa visiting, Rudolph visited!
What a great bishop!
Caleb loves Christmas songs . . . or just any song probably. It's just that recently I've been playing Christmas music and he smiles and laughs whenever I sing and dance (and make faces at him while I'm singing). You can kind of see him enjoying my singing in the pictures below.

He is still as fascinated as ever with his hands! Now he just doesn't go cross-eyed as often when he stares at them. Sometimes he intertwines his fingers. It's funny when he's smiling at us and then he gets excited and starts waving his hands around, then he gets distracted by his hands and stares at them instead of at us.
You can see our new Christmas tree in the background... at least you can see the lights on the tree
Saturday was a very productive day! We helped clean the church in the morning and there were some cute little girls there that watched Caleb for me. They loved it and he was smiling the whole time, even when he was surrounded by 10 kids all touching him (there was a Christmas party going on at the same time we were cleaning the church). That's when I came over and asked them to only touch his toes and not his face and hands. :)
After that, we went to Lowe's to get some supplies . . . then Allen pulled weeds, put new weatherstripping around our door (makes a HUGE difference), swept, mopped, we unpacked more boxes, organized, vacuumed, cleaned our garage out, WHEW! Allen did most of it and I helped between feedings.

Sunday I taught 5 year-olds at church, for some reason the lesson I was supposed to teach was about Easter and the Resurrection . . . the kids were as confused as I was that I was teaching about Easter at Christmas-time. Then in the evening we got to visit some family friends (the Garns) who were visiting Houston. It was fun to catch up with them in the "living room" of their motel room. I think they borrowed chairs from nearby rooms to have four chairs to sit in.
Caleb's cute Sunday outfit given to him by Aunt Stephanie - Thanks Steph!
Last but not least . . .  sleep training (that's all that is left, so if that does not interest you, stop reading here)
At Caleb's doctor's appointment, his doctor also suggested we start getting Caleb to sleep through the night (7-8 hours). He said that when Caleb wakes up at night to check on him, give him his pacifier and then leave him to cry. Go back after he finishes crying and make sure he's okay. The doctor said it would only take three nights and Caleb would have figured it out. So Wednesday we started the sleep training . . . and I started to feel like a terrible mother!

Wednesday night: Caleb woke up around 1 am. It broke my heart to go up to his room, have him look at me expecting me to pick him up and hold him, stick a pacifier in his mouth and walk out as he started to cry again. I sat and watched Caleb crying on our video baby monitor all night and cried with him. When he cries, he turns his head back and forth and rubbed a bald spot on the back of his head. I found a patch of hair on the sheets when I got him out of the crib in the morning : (

Thursday night: He woke up at 12:45 and by 2:45 am I caved in and got him out of his crib. I felt terrible letting him cry for two hours! While crying this night, he kept kicking and arching his back. He scooted himself to the top of the crib and must have a stronger right than left leg because he turned himself sideways at the top of the crib.

Friday night: Allen told me to close Caleb's door and our door and turn off the monitor because Caleb was going to cry whether or not I was awake and listening. He fell asleep at 11 pm and I put him in the crib and I went to bed. I set my alarm for 5 am to feed Caleb again if he was awake. Good thing I set my alarm! I could not hear Caleb at all and when I turned on the  monitor at 5, he was sobbing. I don't know how long he had been crying for but based on how much he slept on Saturday, I think he may have been up crying all night long! He had kicked his way up to the top of the crib and with each kick was bumping his head into the crib bars : (

Saturday night: Closed doors again. I woke up at 4 am and Caleb wasn't crying. He would lay in his crib and doze off, his arm would twitch or he'd get the falling sensation and wake himself up. Then he would fuss until he dozed off again.

Sunday night: Closed doors again. I woke up at 3 am, he was crying. I went and comforted him, he settled down for a little while before starting to cry again. He didn't stop until I got him out to feed him at 5:30 am. This morning he had turned a full 180 in his crib.

I don't think this is working. He cries all night and is tired all day. Time to try something else. 

Monday, December 5, 2011

The weeks go marching one by one . . .

Caleb is EIGHT WEEKS OLD! I can't believe he's already so old! But it does feel like it has been much longer than that since I had a full night's sleep.

MILESTONES of Week 8:
Caleb slept in his own room in the crib! (That means we now get to make trips upstairs in the middle of the night to take care of our crying baby)
Our burrito baby - we have to swaddle him tightly to keep him from waking himself up every time he hits himself in the head, which happens every few minutes. 
Caleb burped and tooted at the same time . . . we've got a multi-tasker on our hands : )

He does, in fact, have colic and I'm not just a bad mom who spoiled her baby into needing to be held all of the time. For example, date night at Macaroni Grill (as seen below) Caleb would cry unless held on his stomach with a pacifier in his mouth while swaying back and forth. Note to self, get a babysitter next time.
After getting sick of taking turns standing up with him while the other ate . . .
. . . Allen got to do some bicep curls with Caleb that kept him quiet for five minutes
Stomach is his favorite position to be in when he is upset. Usually you have to be standing up with him on your forearm for him to stop crying, but sometimes any position on his stomach works.

"Talks" to the stickers on the wall above the changing table. A couple of days ago when I took him off of the changing table, he started crying and kept arching his back to try to see the stickers. I put him back on the table and he stopped crying and started cooing at the stickers again. This morning I got a short video of him talking to them.
Example of Caleb arching his back. He's looking for his mom in this picture; he loves me!
He went on his first run with mom and dad - Mom's second run since having Caleb (but he got to stay home with Aunt Lizzi and Uncle Jeremy on that one). 1.25 miles this time + core workout = sore body (it hurts so good)
Beautiful end of November weather (mid-70s and sunny)
Caleb still doesn't like to be left out
Helping Mom and Dad make corn chowder
He just wants to be a part of all of the action
Chillin on Mom's chair
He gets excited and starts kicking his legs, which makes him tip over.
Why would he look at the camera when he can smile at Dad?

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Giving Thanks

I have so much to be thankful for that I don't even know where to start!

Grateful for siblings:
It was so fun to have Jeremy and Lizzi come visit for Thanksgiving! I'm glad they were happy to just hang out at home, taking turns holding Caleb because that's about all that we did : ) It was fun just sitting around and talking to them and just being with them. It was also nice to take some naps and long showers while they held Caleb. Allen and I even got to go for a jog and go to Walmart without towing Caleb along!
Jeremy spun Caleb in circles
In Lizzi's words, "Aunts don't just hold/love Caleb when he's happy." She took such good care of Caleb!
Grateful for laughter:
One of my favorite foods/treats are the Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory caramel apples! I love them so much! Last year Jenni and I made them together and even though they didn't look as pretty as the ones you can buy, they tasted delicious. Lizzi and I tried to make them on Wednesday night and we laughed harder than I've laughed in a while! I won't try to explain everything that went wrong but I did not know that microwaves can bake chocolate chips into a powder in less than two minutes! As a result, we had a shortage of chocolate and were left with two plain caramel apples but they all tasted good!
The second batch of white chocolate that we didn't mess up.
Lumping the powdery chocolate onto the caramel apples
Finished products . . . delish!
Grateful for plenty to eat:
I probably should have chosen a better time to read The Hunger Games than on Thanksgiving day, but it did help me reflect on how little some people have to meet their needs and how grateful I am to not have to worry about where my next meal is coming from or when I'll get to eat again. Our Thanksgiving feast was delicious: the turkey was so tender it practically fell off of the bone, the gravy didn't have lumps, the mashed potatoes were creamy and buttery (I won't describe every dish but they were all yummy) . . . but I can't leave out a new favorite of mine: Razzleberry pie topped with Blue Bell vanilla ice cream. Mmm mmm good!
Making Grandma Rabbit's rolls
The turkey just fell right off of the bones, so tender
What a beautiful dining table we have
Caleb slept so we could all eat
Grateful for a healthy body:
On Wednesday I got to go on my first "run" since about March. (I stopped exercising, other than going on slow walks, about three months into the pregnancy because any time I did, I had contractions. The last month of my pregnancy, when it was okay to have contractions because I was ready for Caleb to come, I started going on faster walks and doing the eliptical and light weights at the gym.)  It was a definite eye-opener as to what it feels like for people to begin exercising because I had never stopped before. I jogged one mile in 11 minutes and then stopped to walk for a little bit. It was gorgeous outside and Allen convinced me to not push myself on my first "run" so we just enjoyed the sunshine and 75 degree weather as we strolled another 1.5 miles very slowly. Eight months without much exercise = sore muscles after a short, slow jog . . .  it feels good to be sore and am excited to get back in the swing of exercising! As a side note that may be more info than some of you want . . . I don't know if I can jog any faster until I stop nursing! Those things are heavy and it's hard to find sports bras that fit and are supportive without exploding out the top of them. Any suggestions are welcome!

Grateful to be a stay-at-home mom:
I'm grateful that Allen has a good job (that he likes) so I can be home to take care of Caleb every day.While I sometimes miss working, I wouldn't trade the opportunity to be with Caleb for anything. It also makes nights like last night (when I only got to sleep in my bed for 15 minutes) more bearable, knowing that I don't need a functioning brain the next day and can try to fit a nap in.
The best stomach workout is to try to copy Caleb while he's laying on his back. His feet never touch the ground for the full 30 minutes! Straight leg raises, bicycle, etc - I may be better at rolling over but he has a stronger core/abs
Tummy time
I love my job!!!
Grateful for Caleb:
I love this baby so much! I can just sit and watch him for hours. He is sleeping on my chest/stomach as I'm typing this and keep pausing in my writing to look at his cute little face and watch his belly rise and fall with each breath. Sometimes I still can't believe he's mine!

At seven weeks old: He can now reach his feet down to the end of his bath when he extends his whole body and holds a plank position. He likes to stare at his fists as he moves them around. Sometimes his focus changes from his hands to his nose and he stares cross-eyed at his nose until we get his attention focused elsewhere. He has better control of his hands, although he still hits himself in the face frequently . . . his depth perception needs some help. He has started to gnaw/suck on his hand but it usually just ends up with him licking his hands like a cat licks its paws (but much cuter than a cat).


Grateful for Allen:
Even if I tried, I could never find someone who is a more perfect match for me than Allen is. I won't go into any mushy details (because most of you won't want to read that and I know he never reads "our" blog) but he is my best friend and I'm so glad he is my husband. He is such an amazing dad too!
We visited Dad at work and everyone loved seeing Caleb
Caleb trying not to fall asleep
Caleb's already making funny faces at the camera
Dad babysitting
Grateful for temples:
Allen and I were asked to speak in church about the temple. Last week as we prepared for yesterday's talks, I was reminded of how blessed we are to know that because we were married in the temple, our marriage and our family are not bound together only "til death do you part" but for eternity. I can't imagine heaven without my family!